Hey Guys!! Sorry I haven't posted in nearly a month, just been really busy with school starting back up and all. I hope you all have been doing well. Considering it is still one of the most viewed posts on this blog, I decided to do a second annual post about Valentine's Day. Before you start reading, though, I do want to let you know that my views toward this "holiday" have changed in the past year. I want this one to come off more with a message. Don't get me wrong, I will still be funny as I usually am in my posts, just I want people's view of this day to change.
Let me start the official part of this post by saying Happy Valentine's Day or Single's Awareness Day, you choose which one relates to you. Mine leans more to the side of SAD. Let me say this, for the first time in a while, I actually don't mind being "single." There are many plus sides to it. for example, I don't have to buy a girl all this stuff. Trust me, when God shows me the future "Mrs. Alex Vanderspek," I will, but for now, my money is mine haha. And when I look at it, what would it do for me in the long run? Honestly, having a girlfriend would be fun, but I'm only 19. You are supposed to start dating when you're ready to get married and I'm far from even taking marriage into consideration. Right now, I'm in college working toward getting a Bachelor's Degree in Music Production. I don't need a soul to hold either.
Now to everyone celebrating this day, you suck because you have someone on this day. Lol kidding, but this is a day to celebrate love. So, let me get this straight, girls, is this the only day you want your boyfriend to "love" you? Like really! Shouldn't you love each other every freakin day that you're together? Yeah, I think so.
Now back to ALL THE SINGLE LADIES (and guys, I just wanted to throw a little Beyonce in there for you). Guess what!? You no longer have to feel all depressed because you are single! There is someone who loves you and I mean LOVES, bro. He even sent His one and only child to die. For you. Well let me say this, if someone told me I would have to die for every dang person in this world, I would say, "HAIL NO! ARE YA CRAZY IN THE HEAD!?" Lol well Jesus didn't say that, When He easily could have. God loves you more than any boy or girl EVER could. I'm being serious. It may suck majorly when someone just cuts your relationship off, (I go back to December 2013 lol) but God is there. Guess what!? No matter what you do, God will never love you less. He will never "break-up" with you. He may get a little disappointed when you sin, but God is love. You are a beautiful creation of His. Love is one of the most mentioned things in the Bible. Embrace it man
Now this last paragraph relates to EVERYONE, whether you are single or un-single. Instead of planning a really nice date. Instead of eating Ice Cream and watching movies. Instead of giving up your V-Card (Valentine's Day movie reference). I say, go feed some homeless people and tell them about Jesus. You know what the cool thing is? If you are in a relationship, you are still together on Valentine's Day AND you are spreading love. You can even do this if you are single. It's actually pretty cool. Valentine's Day is just another commercialized "holiday" about love. So lets all un-commercialize it by helping others! Isn't that a great idea?
If you read this, thank you so much! I love you. And I mean it!
Until Next Time,
Alex
Let me start the official part of this post by saying Happy Valentine's Day or Single's Awareness Day, you choose which one relates to you. Mine leans more to the side of SAD. Let me say this, for the first time in a while, I actually don't mind being "single." There are many plus sides to it. for example, I don't have to buy a girl all this stuff. Trust me, when God shows me the future "Mrs. Alex Vanderspek," I will, but for now, my money is mine haha. And when I look at it, what would it do for me in the long run? Honestly, having a girlfriend would be fun, but I'm only 19. You are supposed to start dating when you're ready to get married and I'm far from even taking marriage into consideration. Right now, I'm in college working toward getting a Bachelor's Degree in Music Production. I don't need a soul to hold either.
Now to everyone celebrating this day, you suck because you have someone on this day. Lol kidding, but this is a day to celebrate love. So, let me get this straight, girls, is this the only day you want your boyfriend to "love" you? Like really! Shouldn't you love each other every freakin day that you're together? Yeah, I think so.
Now back to ALL THE SINGLE LADIES (and guys, I just wanted to throw a little Beyonce in there for you). Guess what!? You no longer have to feel all depressed because you are single! There is someone who loves you and I mean LOVES, bro. He even sent His one and only child to die. For you. Well let me say this, if someone told me I would have to die for every dang person in this world, I would say, "HAIL NO! ARE YA CRAZY IN THE HEAD!?" Lol well Jesus didn't say that, When He easily could have. God loves you more than any boy or girl EVER could. I'm being serious. It may suck majorly when someone just cuts your relationship off, (I go back to December 2013 lol) but God is there. Guess what!? No matter what you do, God will never love you less. He will never "break-up" with you. He may get a little disappointed when you sin, but God is love. You are a beautiful creation of His. Love is one of the most mentioned things in the Bible. Embrace it man
Now this last paragraph relates to EVERYONE, whether you are single or un-single. Instead of planning a really nice date. Instead of eating Ice Cream and watching movies. Instead of giving up your V-Card (Valentine's Day movie reference). I say, go feed some homeless people and tell them about Jesus. You know what the cool thing is? If you are in a relationship, you are still together on Valentine's Day AND you are spreading love. You can even do this if you are single. It's actually pretty cool. Valentine's Day is just another commercialized "holiday" about love. So lets all un-commercialize it by helping others! Isn't that a great idea?
If you read this, thank you so much! I love you. And I mean it!
Until Next Time,
Alex
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