Sometimes life can really hurt. It could feel like a semi truck just hit you at 200 miles per hour. And that is totally okay. I've been there and it totally sucks. I know. Although maybe I haven't found love yet, I have learn to be more okay with it, if you will. For some people its even harder.
The simple thing here is to trust in God. That's really the only way you're going to get anywhere in this life. I go to an amazing church and am blessed to have so many married or engaged or dating couples in the church. (Literally I think I'm one of maybe 2 or 3 people that aren't in some kind of relationship. Sure, when I'm in public it hurts when I'm walking behind a couple and they're holding hands, kissing, etc., but I have learned to accept it, if you will. My pastors have told me a couple times that the desire to be in love is from God and nowhere else. And whoever God has planned for you has a very similar, if not identical, love history as you or me.
I know getting love advice from someone who has never actually been in love is a little cliché, but at the same time, it really isn't. Unlike many (not all) couples, I've experienced being lead on, played with, used, you name it, I've more than likely been there. The thing with the world, though, is that it puts far too much pressure on being in love, having sex, etc. But God doesn't put pressure on any of it. You know why? Because He is love. If you have Him, you really don't need anything else. God isn't out to get you. But Satan and the world are. It'll all look up from here. And if you're reading this right now and have a broken heart, that means that you are breathing. If you're breathing, you have a beating heart. I know at least one of my friends needs to hear this tonight. Do you?
Until Next Time, Alex
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